What do I do :(
I don’t know what to do.
It’s been sometime now that my husband and I have been legally separated. Waiting for 1 year of separation to get the divorce process started.
Mental illness played a huge toll in his life, and still to this day it does, he has destroyed a lot in his life including this marriage. I have literally worn myself thin, giving someone a life I thought he’d deserved. I loved him anyways, despite mental health issues and other health issues I loved this person very much more then I think he loves himself even to this day.
Over the last few months I have grown into a completely different person, and for the best, I can actually keep care of myself. Unfortunately I’ve been struggling financially, he took the car, and it cost me thousands to be able to afford a car. Now I’m struggling even more because he left me 10,000$ in debt, and is now taking all my HST/GST and trillium payments.
I don’t know what to do,
I choose to not be in contact because he’s a complete toxic person.
I don’t have money for a lawyer, so I don’t know what options I have. Do I take it as I am, paying debts off that don’t belong to me, do I continue to allow him to take my hst/ trillium just to keep the peace? I just need some opinions, please don’t say anything rude. What would you do?