We are not physiologically made for repeated trauma
There’s vulnerability then there’s sucker for abusive punishment
Believe me when I tell you god made humans to not go through repeated stressors and abuses. The human body can only physiologically and biologically can only go through so much, & was only made to sustain and go through so much before it breaks down beyond its natural healthy aging process. If you think you need to go through hell to get to heaven, believe me when I tell you that decades and generations of research of scientific and biblical proof, display different. I pray for those who think that and I pray for those who actually get it.
Heck pray everyday. Pray for the suffering but we also must pray for those who are blessed. Everyone needs prayer & God no matter the caliber.