Just to answer a few questions about my post about my nieces and nephew being left alone with a sex offender.
The neighbour called my partner because she didn’t have my SIL’s number. She knew who this person was because he had assaulted a friend of hers and the friend had told her was a sex offender. She found him because he wore his work coat to visit and she called there to find him. The social workers we have spoken to said this situation is not uncommon and kids are left with new boyfriends and girlfriends all of the time without the parent knowing anything about them. This guy has a long rap sheet. The kids were interviewed and are all old enough to say what happened. The worst thing that was said was that he walked around in his boxers. My SIL is really not phased by this news and says he didn’t know the girl was underage. She still has her kids and I’m sure she will still be seeing him. He isn’t living there right now.
It is a mess. Don’t leave your kids with strangers!!