Needing Advice From The Men

My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. We are in our early to mid 30’s. The last few months things have become strained in the bedroom. He seems to have no sex drive. During our entire relationship I have always had a higher sex drive then him but I’m in no way a horny toad. I say I have a healthy/average sex drive. ( I’d like 4x a week but would even be fine with 2-3x per week ) Its been a solid 2 going on to 3 months with ZERO sex. I have tried the small hints, I’ve tried initiating on numerous occasions. I try to be flirty and sexy, I try texting throughout the day things that use to get him going, I try to touch, kiss, whisper things to him that use to get him going.

NOTHING is working. 🙁 I am truly at a loss. He is a hard working man and I know he is tired a lot. I truly commend him for his work ethic and ambition.
I need help on why this is happening from a male point of view. What are things I could do to change this? Should I ride out the dry spell?

He says it’s not me, still tells me he loves me. I am not an unattractive girl, I know I’m attractive ( not to sound conceded ) could it be me and he just won’t say so. Is this normal?



18 Responses

  1. Anonymous says:

    Clean the piss flaps better.

  2. Anonymous says:

    He’s been henpecked, once damaged goods there is no coming back from it. You might aswell move on and crush the next victims spirits. Atleast you can enjoy the “honeymoon” phase again before destroying another soul.

  3. Anonymous says:

    Men think with their dicks and I’m embarrested to say this but your sleeping partners
    Had better be clean..there is nothing worse then having your partner smell on any parts of their body perfume doesn’t hide smell…keep the garden clean..

  4. Anonymous says:

    Maybe he is gay? Dont know any red blooded man that can turn down a woman unless gay

    • Anonymous says:

      Most likely she’s getting fat and ugly..Men handle age much better. Your response is typical bitch. Men routinely reject fat-laden piss flaps.

    • Anonymous says:

      Any straight man will turn down a smelly set of piss flaps with little toilet paper wads enlodged all up in there. And when she comes home later then her normal shift and you start fucking bare back and you smell the condom friction stank you would be turned off too, and instead of ending it you stay with them because even though they treat you like shit and they have wronged you it is cheaper to stay with them and just deal with the bullshit they throw at you.

  5. Anonymous says:

    As other post said probably cheating

  6. Anonymous says:

    Perhaps you should back up naked to a mirror. Maybe it’s that cellulite on your big fat ass

  7. Anonymous says:

    Cheating most likely. porn could also be a problem. He might be saying he is working OT but is getting some sugar

    • Anonymous says:

      That is quite the rediculous response. Usually someone whos mind goes there is due to guilty concious.

      • Anonymous says:

        men are pigs caught ex having sex with his office manger hed give excuses like working ot or business trip well one time I lied said I was out hid the car and everything made it look Like I wasn’t at home then he comes in with this bitch so I snapped a picture with phone and threw the divorce papers at him and left men are just sex crazed jack asses

      • Anonymous says:

        So because of your ex actions all men are sex crazed pigs? Interesting logic, so since my ex cheated on me and i don’t even know if my child is actually mine what does that make all women by your logic?

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  9. Anonymous says:

    He is getting it somewhere else. I guarantee it.

    • Anonymous says:

      Typical feminist retort

    • Joe says:

      Sometimes things dry up. Best way is to talk it through. With him, either with or without a sex therapist observing.

      I’d start without – cheaper that way too.

      • Anonymous says:

        He could be really stressed about something he hasn’t opened up about yet. It’s best to talk to him about it forsure. I know personally if i’m living in my head i get very distracted and lose motivation and drive for things i normally love. Also don’t put pressure on him.

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