Needing Advice From The Men
My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. We are in our early to mid 30’s. The last few months things have become strained in the bedroom. He seems to have no sex drive. During our entire relationship I have always had a higher sex drive then him but I’m in no way a horny toad. I say I have a healthy/average sex drive. ( I’d like 4x a week but would even be fine with 2-3x per week ) Its been a solid 2 going on to 3 months with ZERO sex. I have tried the small hints, I’ve tried initiating on numerous occasions. I try to be flirty and sexy, I try texting throughout the day things that use to get him going, I try to touch, kiss, whisper things to him that use to get him going.
NOTHING is working. 🙁 I am truly at a loss. He is a hard working man and I know he is tired a lot. I truly commend him for his work ethic and ambition.
I need help on why this is happening from a male point of view. What are things I could do to change this? Should I ride out the dry spell?
He says it’s not me, still tells me he loves me. I am not an unattractive girl, I know I’m attractive ( not to sound conceded ) could it be me and he just won’t say so. Is this normal?