Especially when they try to dumb down topics you know everything about and they know nothing about , such as sexual assaults of any kind, vaginal or breast or menstrual topics etc etc . You get the idea. It’s gross when they do it. Even just when they try to relate with a woman about something she went through but he didn’t, but he does it a condescending way. Guys you need stop this insanity its such a turn off as a friend. Makes us not want to confide anything to you and go somewhere else.