Like the Girl but not the Kids
So been dating a woman for a while now. We get along well and have fun together and are serious. We both have spent time with each other’s families too. The issue I have is her kids. There isn’t any fighting or anything but I just don’t love them in any way and probably never will. I don’t wish them any harm but I’m not interested in being Dad. They have one that they see regularly and I prefer when they are with him. I don’t have any common ground with them, we are not alike in any way, we never argue but also never have much fun together and I don’t want to spend my money on them. I’m just being honest. So I guess what I’m wondering is should I just cut this off? I don’t want to waste her time or mine. Her kids are the only thing making me not want to go the next level.