It’s not always about you

If you’ve never been raped you don’t get to tell a rape victim how to live

If you’ve never been sexually abused as a child , you don’t get to tel the victim of child abuse how and who to forgive

If you’ve never been a victim of domestic violence you can’t tell a person who was beaten by a spouse how to handle themselves.

If you’ve never been hit punched kicked spit on bullied called names or told you’re worthless, you don’t get to tell the person who was how to feel.

I’ve had all those things happens to me and I’m angry. I will always be angry about those things. They happened. I will never settle for cheap treatment. I will never forget and I will never forgive the people who did it. I will not abuse but I will always be guarded and I will always seek out only the people who can treat me best and love me best. I won’t settle for half ass love and I certainly won’t allow anyone to raise their hand or their voice to me since I have been through it already and my body physically won’t allow for it to happen again. If you want to be in a relationship with me and half ass it and not be good to me you will be removed without a second chance and unfortunately for you that may suck. you must learn that some men and women live life only to the fullest once abused they don’t have one spare minute to give to another half ass Person who doesn’t care about others feelings.

Sorry. But I’m not sorry. Learn to emphasize or simply stay away from me. I may not be perfect but I most certainly am responsible for my own happiness and knowing what i will and will not tolerate and I choose me.



4 Responses

  1. Anonymous says:

    Perfectly said except I think you meant empathize instead of emphasize towards the end?? Damn auto correct??

  2. Anonymous says:

    Well it just so happens that the new in thing is women being walked down the aisle by their father for a wedding to hand them off to their selves to marry their selves so they can have the experience of marriage since they didn’t want a relationship because they chose themselves. Maybe you should look into that if you make you happy. This is not sarcasm or a jab. Just a suggestion.

    • Anonymous says:

      Choosing yourself is not about being alone, it is about learning to put yourself and your needs 1st before giving your all to another. It is about self care

      • Anonymous says:

        You mean like me choosing not to get the vaxx?? I have a feeling you are one who preaches wear a mask and get the vax??

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