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I’m not your fucking maid

Men, us women are not maids. When we’re working to help pay for shit the last thing we want is to come home to do the housework on our own. Its takes 20 minutes to sweep. And another 20 minutes to mop (depending on the size of your home, ours isn’t overly big so it only need 40 minutes to sweep and mop). When we cook you dinner, the least you can do is pack it up and stick it in the fridge and maybe do the dishes.

I’m not a housewife. I work and manage a household. I’m sick of my partner thinking it’s my job to do ALL of the housework when he lives here too. While also working a job.

I’ve been wondering what its like to come home and relax. I wonder what its like to just kick my feet up and not have to cook, do laundry, clean the house, do the dishes.

Pretty much at my wits end with this bullshit. If I want to take care of the house by myself I would just be by myself. Worst thing is, he actually thinks that as a woman, its my job to do the housework. When I tried to talk to him about how it would be nice for him to help me sometimes his words were “I don’t have to, its your job because you’re the woman of the house.” I thought this was 2020, not freaking 1920.

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  1. Anonymous says:

    Tell him, or better yet, go on strike. I just sit down and watch tv. Let it all pile up and let him notice, he may or may not do anything about it….but he will notice you aren’t doing it anymore!

  2. Anonymous says:

    Are farts supposed to be lumpy?

  3. Anonymous says:

    Get in the kitchen and fix me a got dang sammich, Woman!

  4. Anonymous says:

    SudburyBare

  5. Anonymous says:

    From the beginning of time the man has been the hunter/gatherer, while the woman stayed in the cave, preparing the dino roast and washing his loin cloth. I love that tradition and duly perpetuate it. Today I am abroad, hunting and gathering at The Beer Store, while my bitch stays at home roasting the tenderloin and at the same time ironing my briefs.

  6. anonymous says:

    Doesn’t he give you the tip every night

  7. Anonymous says:

    Not all relationships are the same. You have the right to be frustrated. You just happened to pick the partner that you do it all. Sad…

  8. Anonymous says:

    If he has no desire to be a better man, and you want more of him than he’ll ever provide, get rid of him

  9. Anonymous says:

    Shut up and make him a sandwich

  10. Anonymous says:

    OMG…I thank my wife everyday for the work she does around our home..I’ve been married 54 years…I do my best to help her vacume, make our bed, clean up the kitchen when our meal is done…and oh yes I’m usually up earlier in the morning I make her breakfast and many times deliver it to her bed…i love her so much…and terrifide that one day I will be by myself….

  11. Anonymous says:

    Tell him you will do all the housework, but he would have to get another job to make up for you quiting yours.. either that or come home and relax, just like him, and order diner…. Mine used to do the same thing to me, cause his mom did everything around the house and was the only one with a job.. His step dad was a bum, so he felt that he was doing better than his step dad, cause at least he worked… He passed away almost 4 months ago, and now I sit back and cry for all the bs I complained about back then.. I would rather still have him in my life and do all the work, than be alone…. Food for thought

  12. Anonymous says:

    Keep up the good work. There will be a tip in the envelope this week.

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