If you don’t like someone’s significant other do you tell them?
I adore my friend but I really despise the person they are hooked up with. I am sure they know because I am no longer fully myself with them even though I try to let on that I am cool with their partner.
Another close friend told me I am best to just try and be happy or at least act like I am for them because the friend in question will eventually figure out why we don’t like their partner. It is really hard watching them together but I would never intentionally hurt my friend. If my friend asks do I say I don’t like their partner and why, or do I just ask if they’re happy and wish them well all the while keeping quiet?
I am for now fully biting my tongue but sometimes I just want to scream why? I see a side of this person that I know my friend will end up casting aside but I don’t know when. Do I just wait like my other friend says?