I truly think some genes are far superior than others
We make pur own choices.
If a man wants to be with the woman he got pregnant, he will. He decides. He can choose her or drugs. He can choose her or his refusal to move out if his parents house. He can choose her or his love of strippers. Point is he can’t blame the mother if his child for HIS preferences. Yes he can say he flat out chooses to not want the mother of his child, and at the end of the day, he needs to own the fact that he can’t stand the mother of his kid. Now , after kids, is not the time to be blaming her. If u never wanted her, maybe front make babies. I’m not a genius, but apparently neither she ypu or ypu genetic material for that matter since nit a single one of your fam members have stayed with their original “baby moms ”
I cringe. But I accept and love either choice. Just maybe in future don’t make selfish choices where others need to pick up ypur slack ? Get it.? Probably not or let’s fave I wouldn’t be here talking about today, for the last 4 decades.