Fathers and Sons

I continue to be amazed and astonished as to how hard some of us fathers in this province/country, have to fight just so we can try and have a good relationship with our kids! Our own flesh and blood!

We fight until we have nothing left. And yet when the time comes when some of us can no longer fight, whether because we are drained financially or we just get tired of having the shit beat out of us at every corner.

Then we are accused of not caring. Of not trying hard enough. We hear shit like “If you truly loved your kids you would have fought harder…”

I’m sick of hearing shit like that. My response to that is…”I would’nt have had to fight at all if I wasn’t dealing with an egotiscal, revengeful, controlling narcissistic maniac of an ex girlfriend.

I would’nt have to fight her at all but i do and always will because she’s afraid that i’ll expose the fact of who she really is and that i’m a great father to my son…

And, god forbid my son should be happy and have a relationship with his father… I wonder why that makes so many women angry and unhappy? That’s really sad folks.

One day my boy, this well all be in the past. One day we’ll be able to see each other when we want, anytime and the sun will shine again.

Until then, I promise as long as I have a breath in me I will fight for your future and a better life than I have. I love you Son.



3 Responses

  1. Anonymous says:

    I’m a little cautious because people always spin the story to their own benefit. If you are being honest, good, don’t ever give up. Respect the mother because your son sees more than you think & in the end you will loose because he won’t tolerate you disrespecting his mum. If you keep a good relationship eventually he will be old enough to do what he wants & will either include you in his life or not. Good luck

  2. Anonymous says:

    Choose better partners in life before having babies with them

  3. Anonymous says:

    As long as there is a baby bonus, this shit will keep happening. If child chooses to go live with the other parent they lose their baby bonus and would have to pay child support, it’s mostly about the money in my opinion. If the person was such a bad person, why did they sleep together in the first place and conceive a child together? Doesn’t make sense in most cases.