Do I ask her father’s blessing to marry her or just propose to her without asking?
I feel like her father might say no if I ask but I really don’t care. I am trying to be traditional so I think the right thing to do would be to ask for her old man’s approval.
I don’t want or need his permission. I will do what I want. I think it would be nice to have his blessing though. It would also make my grandmother very happy since she likes things to be traditional. For the record if he says no I will propose anyway and the proposal will be with her and I or my family and friends present with us because I mostly care at the end of the day what they think. Her old man is going to know I intend to propose if the majority of you think I should get his blessing otherwise I won’t tell him and just go ahead and propose.