Dating Advice… Continued… Continued
So it has been a month since my original post and I must say things have not changed much. I have taken some of the advice of people on here. Tried a paid site, had a more open mind, engaged my communication skills more effectively and even lowered my standards a tad. It has not gone well.
My conclusion is this, the good ones are hiding and not on dating sites. I swear if I speak to one more girl who dumped her loser crackhead abusive boyfriend last week and is trying to find a guy to marry this week, I am going to lose my mind. Ladies one word, codependent. Look it up, it’s what you are if you are jumping on a dating site the day or week you throw out your last man. I swear, I watched a friend on Facebook have a melt down one day about her man and then create a POF and eHarmony profile the next. The sad part is I know some guy is going to fall for her crap, because she’s hot. SMH
For those of you who think I used my posts to weed out some undesirables from the dating sites, you’re right, I did. It’s also extremely ironic how many of the women who got upset over my posts were exactly some of the things I was complaining about.
With that said, a lot of women responded to my last two posts who claimed to be as fed up as I am with the dating scene in Sudbury. Some of you seemed to have a good head on your shoulders, strong, independent and gave me faith that good women do exist in this city. Some of you agreed with all of my points and even wished the guys you met knew what they wanted as much as I do.
Well here is your chance, I got two ticket to see Marianna’s Trench next Tuesday and I am not taking any of the women I have talked to or met on the dating sites. Way to many Red Flags, however I do want to take someone. So If you remember my previous two posts you’ll know enough about me to know if you’d like to go. So comment on this post and tell me you’re interested. I will select someone and message them privately. So yes I will be outing myself on this and you’ll know who I am before you accept. If you want to include a bit about yourself to sweeten the pot by all means.
For those who didn’t read my two original post and don’t want to go hunting. I am a single father with full custody in my mid 30’s, I work, I have hobbies and interests of my own, I have been single for a few years now because I learned to love myself again before putting myself out there and I refuse to settle. I enjoy my me time and I am completely self sufficient.
P.S. Before the people come out to tell me how pathetic this is, remember how many people told me to start thinking outside the box and meet women a different way. I think this is rather cleaver and I am sure others will too.