One had an amazing life with all incredible things happening to them to bring to the awesomeness that they are today.
One person had horrific things happen to them since the beginning of their life. Non stop misfortunate events happened, forming who they are today.
They both keep it real and live their truth.
The person with the amazing life keeps telling the other that “they aren’t what happened to them” all the while living their own truth of the great things that happened to them. But because the person who didn’t have it so lucky makes them uncomfortable, they use ineffective, amateur reverse psychology methods to try to get them to stop living their truth and try to impose the loveliness that happened to them onto the other. They try and push them to take on another parallel reality they’ve never experienced or know how to even navigate, and push their reality aside.
Brian washing of the selfish kind.
You can’t change anyone who makes you uncomfortable. You can educate with facts only, not with perceptions. You can’t remove and white wash someone’s actual experience. You can only love them.
You can’t make someone believe your experience is the only truth. There are always more than one truth when it comes to mere mortal experiences.
YOU CANNOT CHANGE HISTORY. YOU CAN ONLY LEARN FROM IT.