Am I in the wrong?
I’m always getting shit on by my ex husband for not taking our child on trips. I bring her on many spur of the moment trips all summer long. We go camping, to Wonderland, random trips to Toronto to do sight seeing and visit Ripley’s, CN Tower and to Jay’s games.
I have an overnighter trip planned for my new husband, our children and myself and I feel like my ex is shitting on me for not taking our child. I feel like I’m obligated to bring her on every single trip I go on. This year I have at least 6 trips planned for down south.
5 of which our child is coming with me. Am I in the wrong for wanting this one trip to be just me, my husband and our children? I feel like a shitty mother for leaving her behind that 1 time. He has drilled it into our child’s head that they need to come with me and it’s not fair for leaving our child behind.
She gets to go on a lot of trips without siblings with grandparents and her dad and his wife. Why can’t I have just this 1 trip to be with my husband and our children together?