Advice – When your family can’t stand your spouse

I need some advise. My spouse cheated on me and my whole family knows as I am very close to them and needed them during that time. We are trying to work through it, but my family doesn’t want to be around them at family functions and holidays.

So either I come alone and spend holidays without my spouse, or I go and everyone avoids me which makes me feel like crap. For example, one of my siblings is getting married soon and my spouse and I are being placed at a different table than the rest of my family. I’m just so frustrated because I’m the one that was cheated on, yet I am still the one being punished!

Any advice on how to deal with this?



3 Responses

  1. Anonymous says:

    Your family hates your spouse because they don’t like seeing you get treated like shit

  2. Anonymous says:

    Of you’re going to support your spouse, then you stand by your decision and your spouse. If your family wants to see you and support your decision they’ll have to suck it up and see you both. This will drive a wedge between you and your spouse if you let it. It is your choice if you allow it or not. Tell your family if they want to show you support it means supporting your decision.

  3. Anonymous says:

    Are you being punished or are you the fool? If your spouse cheated on you once, guaranteed it will happen again. Your family will always have your best interest and they aren’t blinded by love like you are.

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